Experience-based dating

Take your time.

People • Places • Stories

Meet someone, then do something together.

MetU is a storybook island map where a date is something you share: a café table, a row across the lagoon, a balloon ride at sunset. You get to know each other by how you spend the time.

The island map from above in the late afternoon: terraces, canals and bridges, gardens and a castle on the hill
The mapat golden hour

How a date works

Fewer swipes. More afternoons.

Everyone you meet has a profile you can read before you ask. The date itself happens on the map, side by side.

  1. 1

    Make your profile

    Your name, your look and a few answers about what you're after. It takes a couple of minutes.

  2. 2

    Meet on the map

    Walk the canals and plazas. Click someone's name tag to read their profile, then ask them out.

  3. 3

    Do things together

    Share a café table, play a game for two, row a boat or swim. Your date walks beside you the whole way.

  4. 4

    Keep talking

    When it ends, choose what's next. Your conversation carries on outside the map, and you can ask to hang out again.

Things to do together

Every date is an activity.

Games for two draw from real question banks, so you learn something about each other while you play.

Two people seated at a small round table among the Garden's flower beds
GardenRelax & Unwind

At a table

  • Café JengaPull a block, answer its question
  • Red Flag Green FlagOne statement, two verdicts, then compare
  • This or ThatPick between two books in the Library
  • Never Have I EverBy the bonfire on Sunny Beach

In the striped tents

  • XOX, WordlessQuick rounds, one each
  • Memory Match, Connect FourFor a longer game

Out and about

  • Row or swimBoats on Swan Lagoon, a swim at Sunny Beach
  • A balloon rideOver both islands as the sun goes down
  • The sunset benchIn the Garden, at the end of the day
Two people walking over a stone bridge across a canal towards a domed building
The canalsa walk over the bridge
A striped hot-air balloon on its wooden platform on the cliff top at sunset
WaterfallBreathe & Explore

Places on the map

Fifteen places to meet.

Each one is signposted, and each suits a different kind of date. Press M on the map to pick one and go.

Violet Hour Island at night: a lit Ferris wheel, carnival tents, searchlights and a hill with a glowing pavilion
Violet Hour Islandafter dark

Across the water

Violet Hour Island

Offshore lies an island of rides, a club and a mall that glows after dark: a Ferris wheel, a carousel for two, a lighthouse with a sunset bench. Row or swim across once and it's on your map from then on.

The way MetU works

Made for slow dating.

Doing, not swiping

You meet people where they are and spend real time with them. A shared game says more than a photo grid.

Present on the date

There's no chat window while you're out together. Talk afterwards, in a conversation that's there whenever you want it.

Free to explore

Every place and every activity on the map is free. No points, no paid boosts.


The map is open.

Enter the map

MetU is in preview. The islanders you'll meet are fictional characters for now, and the map plays best on a computer with a keyboard and mouse.